I’m a wedding planner, and I get this question all the time. It’s a good one too: you want to cut the cake at the right time so it feels like an important part of the evening, but not so soon that everyone’s still full from eating their entrees. So let’s dig into what works best, plus some tips to make cutting your own wedding cake go smoothly.
You may have heard that the cake cutting was a tradition brought over from England and Germany, but it’s actually older than that. The concept of cutting the cake goes back as far as ancient Rome and Greece when people would mark important moments in their lives with cake-cutting ceremonies. Sometimes these events were held to celebrate weddings and births, while other times they were used to commemorate deaths or even coronations!
Cake cutting still has a special place at weddings today. It’s not only fun for guests to watch (and eat), but it also provides an opportunity for everyone involved to celebrate the new couple’s marriage together before moving on into the reception hall.
One of the most important parts of a wedding is cutting the cake. This tradition dates back to ancient Rome and symbolizes the couple being married, which means they now have a lifelong partnership. However, when do you cut that beautiful cake?
When it comes to cutting your wedding cake, there are two options: before dinner or later in the evening, either before or after dancing. In most cases, couples choose to be seated around their special moment so all their guests can watch them come together as one—and then enjoy their sweet treat! If you are having a large reception with an open bar and lots of dancing planned for later on in the night (or afternoon), then this might not be ideal because guests will probably need something sweet right away!
Cutting the cake before dinner is a fun, quirky way to keep your guests entertained while they mingle and wait for the meal to begin. But, if you plan on cutting your cake after dinner, be sure to offer other desserts as well!
If you decide to cut the cake during cocktail hour or after dessert is served (which can be done), here are some tips:
If you’re looking to keep the party going, this is a great option. It gives people an opportunity to get up and move around after dinner, and it also lets you avoid rushing through dessert. On the other hand, if you think it would be nice for guests to have more time with each other before they leave, then cutting the cake earlier in the evening may be better suited for your wedding reception timeline. This can work especially well if there are other desserts on offer at your wedding—for example, we might recommend serving petit fours or macarons alongside slices of cake so that guests don’t feel like they’re missing out on something sweet!
In the wedding world, there is a lot of debate about when to cut the cake. Some people think it should be done at an early hour so that guests can enjoy their desserts before dinner and then get up and move around a bit later in the evening. Others believe that cutting it too early will result in people eating nothing other than cake or dessert throughout dinner—which isn’t ideal when you’re trying to keep everyone satisfied with a well-rounded meal.
No matter what you decide, make sure that your decision fits into your overall plan for the night. If you want everyone to sit down and enjoy a three-course meal followed by dancing, then cutting the cake earlier may be best suited for your needs. Or if you want guests up and moving after dinner but still have plenty of room left on their plates for more food (or maybe even seconds), then it might make sense for them to eat some cake after they’ve finished eating all of their main courses!
If you’re looking for a fun way to kick off your wedding reception, cutting the cake is a great option. It’s something that most people at your wedding will be excited about, and it can be done either before dinner or after dessert.